Sunday, November 02, 2008

A stressful time

Immediately after saying I would post twice a week, things decidedly got more hectic at school. Last week, I only taught one day of class as I was out sick on Monday and Tuesday with food poisoning (I lost ten pounds. Great diet, huh?). Wednesday and Thursday I was out for training so that I could create the NEW Todd website (yes, this is different than last year's). So that just left Friday, Halloween, as the one day of the week where I would be teaching. Needless to say, not much was accomplished and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm going to get my kids ready for their six weeks exams AND get them to finish their 5 paragraph research essays. It's a stressful time.

I don't know how to really bring this up, so here it is

Also, on a more serious note, we lost one of our former students a few weeks ago in a shooting. This particular ex-student (he had withdrawn) was riding bikes with one of my students when they got into a fight with some OTHER students from my school. A gun was pulled and the ex-student was shot in the head and killed. I didn't really know the victim, although I had broken up a fight that he was getting into a week before he was killed. Regardless of who this boy was and what kind of person he was, he didn't deserve to die.

My student that was with him has since withdrawn from school, and I doubt I'll ever see him again. He was having lots of behavior problems and I had met with his mom several times to discuss it with her and the principal. I had even called his mom the night of the shooting. It's a shame, because I really don't know how this is going to affect the rest of his life. He wasn't in a good place before, and I'm sure seeing his friend shot and killed traumatized him. At least his mom cares - maybe she can help him come out of this and turn his life around so he doesn't end up like his friend.

Since the victim and the killers (4 students were arrested) were students or former students, just about everyone on campus was connected somehow to the event. It was an absolute mess that week at school, as we weren't aware of family or friendship ties, news media was covering the shooting, and a text message threat was sent out to coincide with the funeral and promised retribution against the killers and their family. Unfortunately, one of the killers' sisters is a great student: a cheerleader, honor student, very well-put-together person. Because her brother was an idiot, her life was turned upside down and she had to worry about her own life. Luckily, nothing happened, and a cadre of police officers and vehicles was there to make sure of it.

Ugh. I'm sorry. I'm just not really in a typing mood tonight. Hopefully just getting this post out will allow me to write more about the event and my thoughts later.

Here's a few news links about the shooting.
4 Juveniles Detained
Residential Reaction


Calling all commenters!!

Since this blog is specifically on the internet to serve as an account of my life as a teacher and share it with all of you, I'm sure you all would like me to update more often. However, I'm finding myself very lackadaisical in this pursuit, partly because it often seems like I'm typing only for myself. Please, please comment. I don't care if your comments are insightful, but if you just post something, then I can start a discussion WITH all of you, and my blog will seem like less of a chore and more of a way to stay in touch with everyone.

3 comments:

Mother said...

Ir was sad to hear about the shooting of a former student at Todd. I'm sorry for his family, and sorry for the school. Maybe it will serve, however, as a wake-up call to school administrators, police, and parents to do something about the gangs!

On another note, I'm sure you are very busy preparing for the big exams. Hope your students do better than last year. Let us know how it goes.

About comments on your postings: I got out of the habit of reading your blog postings, because you stopped for awhile. I will try to do a better job of checking and commenting, because I do love to read about what's happening with your teaching and students.
Blessings!
Mother

Meg said...

Mark, that's terrible. I'm so sorry. That must be such a struggle to deal with.

And food poisoning! Oh dear!

I've always enjoyed reading what you have to say, even when I keep mum.

Mark said...

Thanks for the comments you two!

My food poisoning has pretty much all cleared up. I played a game of softball and have been to the gym a little bit to try to get back some of the muscle mass lost after a few days of literally no activity other than quick trips to the bathroom.